i'm stumped and i'm new at this i didn't believe in sex before marriage so now i'm clueless i have no idea on what i'm doing or ow to please him or to not mess something up or how to turn him on in the best way. and my friends (who are much more "experienced" than im) have given advice but i wanted to see what more people had to say. trust me i have been educated on sex and know everything except for the actual fun and pleasure in sex. so help please it would be greatly appreciated.

I felt the same way you do. I was really embarrassed because I had no sex ed in school and didnt even know how it was supposed to happen. I thought it was like in the movies where you lay next to each other and kiss and it happens. I am sure you are not in this boat but I found that reading books helped me a lot. I read a Kama Sutra book and also read a lot of other sex book. It might be embarrassing to buy them but once you feel confident, he will enjoy it more

The best thing you could do is simply ask him What turns him on! Just like every woman is different so is every man! I was in the exact same position as you. And I actually started watching porn! Not for pleasure cuz i honestly think its vulger, but as a way to learn to new techniques I could use on my husband. The best thing he likes is blow jobs. You can actually stimulate his wenis by running your tounge from in between his balls all the way up to the tip of his dick Then you wrap one of your hands around his dick and do a hand job at the same time as you swirl your tounge around the tip of his dick. If that doesnt work let me know I have a million other things that could blow his mind. But Im sure it will work!!!