Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months and i am kinda about the sex he doesn't exactly have a small wenis but its a tad smaller than i have before but that don't bother me as much as he doesn't know how to control himself i guess (when he gets off) and it's too soon for me. So i wanted to know if there were any positions or thing i could do to help the situation without him thinking im being mean or anything.

Well i don't know if there are any specific positions that you two could try. I know with myself I do have positions that just put me "sending" much faster than others, but that is a personal preference nothing that anyone will be able to tell the two of you. But with practice the length of the sex will get longer.
what you could also try is getting him off earlier in the day. say if you know you're going to have sex at night with him maybe an hour or two before that give him oral. the second time around always lasts longer. I know a lot of guys will masterbate before having sex so that they last longer. There are a lot of things you can try, you just have to be open with each other. you don't have to tell him that he doesn't last long enough because you don't want to diminish his confidence. But at the same time work to get what you want.
if you are concerned at all with his size, doggy allows you to feel the "most" of him so you could try that.

Well i like doggie style because it is easier for me to reach around and i can get off better that way but he sometimes finishes faster that way too. but i dont do alot of the work either i get tired easy because i am not a small girl but i am not huge either but he does last longer when he drinks too and i just dont know how to tell him what to do because some times when i try to touch myself he pulls my hand away but when he does it he does it hard and i cant get him to stop and i am pregnant and i am dryer than normal i dont know what to do about that and i dont like to use lube i dont know what to do

Well the drinking would help him last longer but I don't know if drinking is really helping the situation. You don't want him to have to drink everytime you guys want to have sex....wouldn't that be everday=alcoholic=bigger problem. I mean I really think you know what you need to do. You know what you like and what he likes. Obviously if he gets off faster then he really likes that position.
Just the more you guys do have sex the longer he will last. Also try taking a 30 sec. break. Let the blood flow slow down a bit, that will help him last longer. if it's 100% for the whole time you're having sex he will get off faster. but if you stop and say "play with yourself for those 30 sec" while he watches. he should still be turned on but also backing himself down to last longer. Give it a shot!

Buy a Karma Sutra (sp?) book. They have good ideas for different positions. Also, get ideas from some porn....it really works!

well he does do that stop for a minute but i am sorta not comfortable touching myself to where he can see and i dont know if he is comfortable i dont want him to think he is not pleasing me which is what i think he thinks when we do it doggy style and i touch myself he kinda gently pushes my hand away but for some reason when i give him oral he last longer for that than sex i dont understand and he only lets me give oral when he drinks and in the beginning he always gave me oral and now he doesnt do it at all now is it just me or whats going on