ok, so my boyfriend really wants to try anal, and i've never done it before. me and my last bf tried, but it hurt too bad. he was a lot, um, bigger, than the guy i'm with now. but i'm still kinda nervous. does anyone have some advice of how to make it easier? plus i've hear a lot of stories of people going number 2 during anal. what do i do?

He should def. wear a condom if you are going to do anal and make sure that there is lots of lubricant involved and the he goes very slowly. But honestly I wouldn't recommend doing that coming from a guy. I wanted to try anal and my wife didn't really care becasue we always played around there anyways. But when we did go anal I slipped into her vagina and our sex life has come to a screeching hault. It sucks really bad and there isn't a day that goes by that I wish I wouldn't have done that at all because our sex life was amazing before that happened and now it has pulled a 180 and sucks a**....no pun intended. I just wouldn't recommend doing it at all. There is nothing good that comes out of it, the vagina feels 100X better anyways..it's basically a curiousity thing.

Im so sorry about your experience, Mannneed.

Robble, it only hurts the first couple of thrusts. If he goes really, really S L O W at first and uses lots of lube, you will be fine.

As far as having to "go" during anal, it has never happened to me. As long as you are cleaned out (BM) and showered properly afterwards... you should be good.

Respectfully, what happened to the poster above is extremely rare (have never heard of it myself) but with that said, definitely do not go from anus to vagina... it's a GREAT way to get a UTI. And you definitely need to use a condom unless this is a monogamous relationship and you have both have been tested because it is considered more risky where STD's are concerned.