My boyfriend just told me for the past 3 months it seems as if my vagina isn't tight anymore...I have never had kids and never been that sexually active...We don't have sex on the regular. But, can out of NO WHERE my vagina muscles looses that much where he cannot be satisfied? What is wrong with me? Or is it him?

I have never heard of such a thing. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME...I am absolutely mortified and devestated...

Maybe he cheated and that's why it feels different?
He noticed a difference with the other person?

He says he hasn't cheated...I have no reasons to believe that he has done such a thing...So I am really really lost...He says he doesn't know why it feels so loose...All the people I have been with always talked about how tight I am...Even he said the same thing, so for all the sudden it to be the complete opposite...Hmmm....Something isn't right...

Why don't you pleasure yourself and see for yourself if it feels "loose" or "tight" to you. That way you're not going off of someone elses opnion and can feel it for yourself. Maybe it's just him and his thinking. Once you find that out then you can get a better idea. Also maybe you've just been much more relaxed with him lately than you were on your previous sexual encounters. Maybe on those previous ones you were tense which caused your vagina to tense/tighten up which can def. happen. Many many possabilities!!

Plus I hate how everyone's first response is cheating. This isn't a catch cheaters website. Although we don't want to be in denial but I swear on every post there is always someone who says that. Gets kinda old when people are searching for real sexual advice

Kegel exercises are your friend.


How to do Kegel exercises
It takes diligence to identify your pelvic floor muscles and learn how to contract and relax them. Here are some pointers:

Find the right muscles
To make sure you know how to contract your pelvic floor muscles, try to stop the flow of urine while you're going to the bathroom. If you succeed, you've got the basic move. Or try another technique: Insert a finger inside your vagina and try to squeeze the surrounding muscles. You should be able to feel your vagina tighten and your pelvic floor move upward. Then relax your muscles and feel your pelvic floor move down to the starting position. As your muscles become stronger — and you become more experienced with the exercises — this movement will be more pronounced.

But don't make a habit of starting and stopping your urine stream. Doing Kegel exercises with a full bladder or while emptying your bladder can actually weaken the muscles. It can also lead to incomplete emptying of the bladder, which increases your risk of a urinary tract infection.

If you're having trouble finding the right muscles, don't be embarrassed to ask for help. Your doctor or other health care provider can give you important feedback so that you learn to isolate and exercise the correct muscles.

Perfect your technique
Once you've identified your pelvic floor muscles, empty your bladder and sit or lie down. Then:

Contract your pelvic floor muscles.
Hold the contraction for three seconds then relax for three seconds.
Repeat 10 times.
Once you've perfected three-second muscle contractions, try it for four seconds at a time, alternating muscle contractions with a four-second rest period.
Work up to keeping the muscles contracted for 10 seconds at a time, relaxing for 10 seconds between contractions.
To get the maximum benefit, focus on tightening only your pelvic floor muscles or isolating your pelvic floor muscles. Be careful not to flex the muscles in your abdomen, thighs or buttocks. Also, try not to hold your breath. Just relax, breathe freely and focus on tightening the muscles around your vagina and rectum.

Repeat three times a day
Perform a set of 10 Kegel exercises three times a day. The exercises will get easier the more often you do them. You might make a practice of fitting in a set every time you do a routine task, such as checking e-mail or commuting to work.

Vary your technique with one of these methods:

Try sets of mini-Kegels. Count quickly to 10 or 20, contracting and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles each time you say a number.
Visualize an elevator. Slow down the exercises, gradually contracting and releasing your pelvic floor muscles one at a time. As you contract, visualize an elevator traveling up four floors. At each floor, contract your muscles a little more until you reach maximum contraction at the fourth floor. Hold the contraction and then slowly release the tension as you visualize the elevator returning to the ground floor. Repeat 10 times.


http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119

I have heard that taking a bath with vinegar should make your vagina tighter and I hear alot of people use vinegar for many reasons "down there" as well so it should be vagina friendly. It is normal for it to get looser every time you have sex but everyone is different some people get loose faster than others and some people never get loose even if they have frequent sex. Take it from someone with too many guys for friends, they have all told me that their girlfriends get looser with sex so don't feel devistated it is normal.

perhaps he isn't as hard as he normally is. i doubt your vajayjay magically got loose over night. but kegals is a good workout also try and tighten while you are having sex. Do not douche, it can cause PID, by pushing bacteria up inside of you and other bad stuff too. lit is true your vaginal muscles does lose elasticity each time you have sex and by doing tightening excersises it should help some, best thing no one can tell you are doing them and can do them anytime anywhere.

maybe he's in denial and his dick is shrinking. You know how old people eventually lose an inch or two to their height maybe he's lost an inch or two