Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for six months and known him for about a year, he is the first person that I have ever been in love with and he does love me back we've been having sex for about three months and he is the fourth man I have ever taken to bed so I would say that I am experienced. I am so comfortable in bed with him but I cannot have an orgasm, I loved him too much to just admit that I am not having orgasms so all this time he is thinking that I have oragasms when I don't.

What should I do and how do I have an orgasm?????

Hello Susannah ~ Seriously, you may try oral pleasure. access of the G-spot or even look into the Welcomed Consensus (www.welcomed.com), an educational facility dedicated to the female orgasm and what they call D.O. (Deliberate Orgasm). Then there is also the Sinclair Institute (sex ed videos). M I K E

You should try this...my wife and I do this. I give her oral for a while until she is going to *** then when she is almost there we start having sex. This way she has her orgasm while we are having sex but you are just warming up while he is giving you oral. It's a great way to get you and him going before you start to have sex but then also a great way to experience and orgasm together. Plus it makes sex much better because you are much wetter