I had not sex for 2 yrs until this past November. Ever since then he has not lasted more than 5 minutes. He told me it was my fault. That I did something, but all I did was lay there. I gave him oral sex and he made me stop then he got on top and started and before I could move or anything it was over. I have been with one other person and it was the same thing. I am lost as to do or not to do? Can someone help me please!

I don't really know what the problem is.....you got the bomb vag. It's a bad thing to be too loose but not too tight. As long as it doesn't hurt you, tell him to quit being a pre-ejaculator and it's not your fault at all. I think he's just trying to blame you because he can't control his wang.

" I think he's just trying to blame you because he can't control his wang. "

AMEN! It is NOT your fault. No such thing as a loose vagina unelss you've had kids. And even then you can flex your vaginal muscles and tighten it back up again!

Guys can help with the premature ejaculator thing by flexing and un-flexing and strenghtening those muscles also.

OH! And don't just lie there and let him use you! That's SO AWFUL! Be a woman. If he has a problem with you, let him use his hand!