I'm kind of confused on this. how do i know if i have squirted before? and also what's the difference bewteen squirting and peeing? how do i differentiate the two? anyone that could help it would be greatly appreciated.

squirting is female ejaculation most commonly brought on by stimulation of the gspot. a good way ensure you are squirting is going to pee right before you and your partner get started.and believe me you will indeed know the difference because u will start shaking like you are in an electric chair. hopefully someone will come along with more answers on how to help you get to that point because the only method i know may not work for everyone but here is my experience with my wife when we first began the process. While laying on your back have your partner insert one or two fingers against the upper back part of your vagina,(if your are in a doggie style position have your partner insert palm facing down){oh and placing your palm right above your pelvic bone applying pressure there helps} after a few minutes of stroking that area your senses will start to go wild and your partner will start feeling that area swell up. this is your g-spot growing. around this time you can choose to keep letting your partner finger you or either go along with penetration. a few minutes later you will become a mini rain forrest. Now keep in mind you have to be totally relaxed physically and mentally and you also have to be patient because if you havent squirted yet then the process can take from 15 minutes to 45 minutes (usually 20-30).Make sure that your partner is really cool with the process and not just hyped by the idea because like i did your partner will get SOAKED! now dont be embarrassed but because of the fact that it comes from your urethra it tends to smell a little like urine but its not and if you ever catch some in your hand and look you can tell its not. Oh and if u become sore from trying it dont force it and if you cant do it between the times i gave you dont be discouraged because every one goes at their own pace.....HOPE THIS HELPS

Thank you it does help! now is it possible to be able do it solo?? and do you absolutely have to stimulate the G-spot?

I'm 99.9% positive that "squirting" is possible only with g-spot orgasm - so, if you can reach it solo - then yes, it's possible.