he's never at home n he looks happy with not bein at home and tori looks like she ain't getting any.

In reference to the "not getting any" topic: do you want them to just do it right on the show There is such a thing as "a time and a place". I think they are trying and you certainly don't see but a mere fraction of their lives. KLee

I do not think dean is cheating but I think he would. He seems like the kind of guy that leads with his manhood. He is after all a scorpio and I think that he is use to having a lot of sex in a relationship and with tori she is so busy and trying to be a hands on mom, that the toll is really coming out in the bedroom department. After all I could not know how much sex they do have, but the comments he makes and the faces she makes when he comments on "not enough sex". I can see it in her facial expressions that she is worn, and kinda like, : how dare you ask for sex i'm soooo tired and worn out" I know that look I do it often!! I think tori is a great person and mother and is trying to be a great wife and do it all. But it can't be done. I can see dean's flirty nature and to me there IS harm in flirting. I have a man, and when I am in love I have no desire to even look at another man. The thought doesn't even come into my mind. Thoses that flirt or think of others in a sexual manner, can not poosibly be in love. To be in love - true love, means that no others even exist. Dean if he was in love, wouldn't even be flirty. Thats my opinion anyway!

I doubt Dean would cheat on her, but he is very flirty. As for the not enough sex comment I find that typical of a men who don't realize how much energy goes into child rearing and a job outside the home as well. But I still love his personality probable because my own is very similar . With that being said.
I take offence to the qoute "He is afterall a Scorpio".
By horoscope standards Scorpio's are fiercely loyal,then again were also known for our possessiveness and jealousy. Tend to be controlling. But also are great lovers.
So I say, keep being a True Scorpio (water sign) after all your considered a good match for your Taurus (earth sign) wife. Water and Earth good combo.

good point! It's a family show. Although Tori seems a little exhausted when Dean brings up sex. Gee, could it be she's a Mom, wife, actress, jewelry designer, clothing designer, written 2 books..................did I forgot anything?

I am not a scorpio, so my only knowledge of that sign is the sex drive. I did not know it also included loyalty. However Dean must of missed that when he cheated on his wife with tori and than dumped her and married tori. Hmm, where is that scorpio loyalty now? Nonetheless I do like him, but would never be with him. I couldn't stand another man who acted like a child and did nothing but play his games all day!! I've got that already!!

If he was to cheat on her, the ratings would go up on the show.

i think that dean is happy with tori and deeply in love with her and has no thoughts of cheating and it does not hurt to look but u may not touch dean loves tori and his two wonder children so u all r crazy to thing he is or even has thought about cheatin

At this point Dean is a kept man... he "aint" goin' anywhere. He has money he has never had...shadow fame from Tori.... and doesnt have to work. Who would leave. He may very well have a honey on the side but, he is not leaving his meal ticket ever.

[font="Tahoma"][/font][color="#FF0000"][/color]Hello All, KLee here: Remember the show is edited and put together for maximum affect. A good friend of mine went to the wedding Tori performed on the B&B. He explained that they film alot but edit for the sake of the show's ratings, time alotment, etc... We only know Tori, Dean & Family by what is left in the show. Tori acts as though she is not as comfortable talking about sex, very personal stuff. Dean is a guy and it is not a big deal, he probably likes acting up with her. Remember, this is a show. The real family is probably very different. I hope they can perserve their privacy. I hope Tori and her Mom can come to some arrangement. Later Peeps.....

I think it is rather unfair to say this kind of thing about him. I do not know him, personally and I only see what is on every week's show. The sex comments stated by Dean are quite excessive and makes me wonder the same from time to time, but my boyfriend is the same way. He is probably joking around or maybe he is just hinting that he wants sex. From what I do see on their show, I do not think he would step out on her. He is a devoted dad, and husband. I know, I know, he cheated on his first wife with Tori, but I do believe he is happy with his life with Tori, Liam, and Stella. From what I see, he is a good guy.

How do you explain him looking unhappy?
I feel that he is just using her for money.
He's scum. He left his wife for her and
I like tori though but I feel that he will
not leave her because of her $ and
he probably thinks he won the lottery.
So he may cheat and not admit it but
he will still stick around.
once a cheater, always a cheater.



wow i didn't realize she doesn't have 10 minutes to spare from her busy day schedule.

being a mom, she pays a lot of attention to the kids and that is good, but men have been known to get jealous of the baby receiving more attention and knowing his past behavior I doubt he won't cheat. there is also such a thing as emotional cheating and that is when the person is in love with someone else and is pretty much a couple, but hasn't had sex or anything physical yet so yes he could be cheating.




how do you know he hasn't thought about or already done it?

I like your post the most, you are so right!

no longer here

Yeah...I'm sure Dean can easily cheat with all the cameras, nosy photographers and fans around. And thats not including his friends and family around him the rest of the time. Guess he better get that quick nookie in behind the dumpster from some chick he just met off the street before he gets caught! The cheating bastard!

Jon Gosselin managed it.

I completely disagree. The show has shown Dean working. He may not be as busy as Tori, but he does film movies. And seriously, is it impossible to think that someone may actually love her for her and not just for her money? Which she doesn't seem to have that much of anyway. Or not like she used to anyway.

Its been interesting watching the dynamics shift with 2 babies (wanna bet that's the house limit?) a Tori jewelry line, books . Dean seems emotionally detached, there physically, somehow bored, tired of playing Mr. Dad or Mr. Spelling. The clincher for me was seeing him taking up motorcycling full time, buying and riding, when he knows what a nervous nelly he left at home with two children. Yes, there are likely loads of nannies, cooks, helpers, friends....but with all that Tori was envisioning the stability of husband at her side into old age and marrying off their kids.

As for cheating...I think the reason this poor undernourished woman is looking emaciated is the delusion that if she drops the baby and returns to skinny, somehow Dean will remain forever enchanted, attracted and tied to her and the kids. If men only worked that way...but open any newspaper today and the most beautiful women can't keep them entertained for long...So I do hope she's inherited her father's smarts for business because I smell an a**kickin coming up in the near future and hope she's got a tight prenup so she finds someone who understands how vulnerable she really is. Dean sees it, but he manipulates her for it. Instead of biking, he ought to consider spending some reading/eduaction time with the boy--kid doesnt need miniature golf, he should be speaking already and doesnt seem to connect to his surroundings very well...and I the only mother who sees that?

With all her eyelash batting, Tori never struck me as actually wanting any..a piece of ice

[quote name='BeetleBum' post='168845' date='Jul 21 2009, 05:05 AM']Its been interesting watching the dynamics shift with 2 babies (wanna bet that's the house limit?) a Tori jewelry line, books . Dean seems emotionally detached, there physically, somehow bored, tired of playing Mr. Dad or Mr. Spelling. The clincher for me was seeing him taking up motorcycling full time, buying and riding, when he knows what a nervous nelly he left at home with two children. Yes, there are likely loads of nannies, cooks, helpers, friends....but with all that Tori was envisioning the stability of husband at her side into old age and marrying off their kids.

As for cheating...I think the reason this poor undernourished woman is looking emaciated is the delusion that if she drops the baby and returns to skinny, somehow Dean will remain forever enchanted, attracted and tied to her and the kids. If men only worked that way...but open any newspaper today and the most beautiful women can't keep them entertained for long...So I do hope she's inherited her father's smarts for business because I smell an a**kickin coming up in the near future and hope she's got a tight prenup so she finds someone who understands how vulnerable she really is. Dean sees it, but he manipulates her for it. Instead of biking, he ought to consider spending some reading/eduaction time with the boy--kid doesnt need miniature golf, he should be speaking already and doesnt seem to connect to his surroundings very well...and I the only mother who sees that?[/quote no longer here

I suspect he is.

Your statement is a revealing reflection of yourself.

I think this is dumb. I don't think Dean is cheating at all!!