QUOTE (DreamNheaven @ Aug 7 2009, 12:47 PM)


Okay so, im getting married next week (August15,09)
We're going on a honey moon

we been together 4 years and tryed things
minus anal, im scarred, and i think its gross, i'll probably end up ****ing myself lol.
so im thinking should i try it anyhow and make him happy so should we try someting new and cleaner? but what any ideas? we're pretty freaky in the bed room, so like im out of ideas
[font="Lucida Console"][/font]I just agreed to this myself for the first time and 5 times later it just gets so much better, please get some astroglide, and also it is less painfull if you lay on your tummy with a pillow right under you, this puts you in a more straight position. Make sure your hubby takes it really slow with you, and breath deep as he is going in and push out as if you were pooping. LOL Okay he is really going to get super excited. Because this is all new and it feels different I guess. Try to make sure you have pooped and also make sure he understands he can't tell you about the after effects that maybe left, he can wear a condom. And as a nurse I should be giving you this advice...........
But the major thing is for you to go too the doctor and get some antibiotics for a UTI and take some vaginal cream monistat with you, as you will get honeymoon cystitis, Let me tell you this will ruin your honeymonn in a heartbeat. Been there done that one. Nurses are the worse. Go Pee Pee each and everytime you have sex as too empty your bladder and clean you from bacteria. Make sure any oral sex that he has brushed his teeth.
Congratz, go and enjoy you might like it, I know he will..............It is a very intimate experience with the one you love.