Your kids are too young to be actors and your response to raising them. Your reactions to caring about your husband are genuine and he of you. Most of all your extended family of friends and the nurse show that you are a great builder of relationships.
With that said, I wish you the best with your mom and hope that nothing should come between you raising your children and enjoying your husband. Coontinue to enjoy life to the fullest. I never thought so much about a person I grew up watching on TV!