QUOTE (butterflies @ Oct 25 2009, 07:36 PM)

You have got to be kidding me. Blaming Tori, saying Dean does not support her, saying husbands come and go, and mothers and grandmothers are always and forever. Did you ever think that Dean is the kids' dad. The dad that I thought the kids loved and needed. He has been there for Tori, and her mom was never there for her even through her childhood. I support Tori in how she is handeling this. YOU GO TORI! I What a load. My grandma call me worthless, however, I am the only one that does not owe her money, never disrespected her in any way, the only one that does not do drugs, the only one that graduated college and has a career, matter of fact I am the only one that has a job. My cousins are either in jail or live with her. Now tell me if I am the one who is worthless. Maybe it's because I have a terminal illness and I am the only girl, but what stops her coming to my kids' birthday party. I call and tell her and my cousins when and where, but they never come. My dad drives 8 hours to come so why can't my grandma which is 10 minutes away. Are you going to tell me to stop being a selfish boob! I hate when people think they know celebrities stories just because of t.v. and the tabloids. You never get the full story ever. Even if they do have cameras following them 24 hours a day. Sorry if this seems rude but it just aggrevates me. I hope Tori's mom comes around. She is losing out on not knowing her grandkids. Come on Candie GROW UP. YOUR NOT 2 ANYMORE.
So sorry about your illness and Grandma's mean words to you. You seem very strong so just stay strong and keep the faith. It's so wrong how family can be so cruel like that but you know in your heart you're doing the best you can and that's ok.
I think Candy & Tori both need to grow up, put the past behind because noone is guaranteed tomorrow. I guess they can at least try and see what happens, nothing ventured, nothing gained. They each have their own perception of how it was when Tori was a child but they need to stop living in the past.
My Mom and I didn't have the best relationship growing up but I'm taking care of her right now because she is sick and it's the right thing to do. It's not easy but I have to leave it in the past, Tori should try that.