When my boyfriend and i have sex it's amazing, but after I feel like the lips of my vigina are on fire.He says that I don't get as wet as I used to when we first started going out. He's in the military and he just got back from afghanistand and the sex got a little rough in the biggining and he use to rubb me raw now it's kinda scared and I still dont get as "wet", I feel like my lips are dry and after sex it burns. Could some scaring have something to do with my i feel like i'm drying out? is there a solution that doesn't involve lubricant?? Please, HELP!!!!!!!!!