QUOTE (Katt @ Jan 29 2009, 04:48 AM)

My boyfriend has a rather large wenis. He wants to have anal sex occasionally, the problem is this rather large wenis. He suggested, for my comfort, a numbing product such as Anal-Ease. Although, he wonders if contact with the product would also numb his wenis, making it more difficult for him to ejaculate, thereby prolonging the sex act, (and likely, my discomfort). I HAVE heard that it is not recommended to use a numbing product, since the discomfort is the only indicator that perhaps your body is not capable of accommodating the organ in question, but I have engaged in anal sex enjoyably in the past, (with men who were not so well-endowed as he) and would like to be able to "make all his fantasies come true". Also, since he is rather large, he would like to inquire if there is a similar product that can be used for numbing the throat, in order to regulate that darned "gag reflex", but again, without numbing his wenis, as well. I wonder if an over-the-counter throat spray used for sore throats, or even a sore throat lozenge would numb the throat sufficiently to keep one from gagging on a fully erect 9 1/2 inch wenis? Actually, I should be able to swallow this, as I've actually had one boyfriend who was slightly longer, though he didn't have quite the girth, and this, added to the length prevents me from taking him all the way down my throat!
There is an oral sex spray called "
deep throat" that numbs the uvulla (the little thingy in the back of your throat.)
As for your anal issues, I don't really like using numbing products like this because pain is generally a sign that you're going too fast or need to stop. You'd be safer off by using lots and lots of LUBRICANT.